Let us Love Ourselves

Devoting your time and energy to something or someone may deteriorate your mental health if you are not aware of it. We can become emotionally and psychologically exhausted without doing much physical work. If this happens to you and you are also a victim of low energy on most days, then read this complete blog post! Emotional exhaustion can happen when a person feels emotionally exhausted and drained. People who have low energy levels may be suffering from emotional exhaustion and a sense that they have little control over their lives. They believe they are trapped and can't get out of a circumstance. This emotional exhaustion can also lead to low energy, poor appetite, less or more sleep, lack of motivation, and a lot more. So, what are the warning indications that your energy is being depleted? If you identify with any of the above statements, don't worry; it's never too late to heal yourself. 7 Warning Signs Of A Drained-Out Energy 1. Constantly Thinking - Even if we ar...

You have to attend an important meeting and, your keys are not there.  You are scared that you are already late and nervous at the same time because you don't want to create a mess. In this situation, it's easy to get disturbed and lose your calm. Isn't it? But what if I told you that losing your cool and becoming furious will make you agitated and will not help you find what you're looking for? On the other hand, if you sit calmly for a minute, take a deep breath, and then think about where you kept your keys, you might be able to find them. Maybe it's just beside your table and, due to your restlessness, you were not able to find it. It is always the same case in our everyday life. We always want to react instead of respond which makes things worse. Sometimes without even knowing the whole story, we react and hurt ourselves as well as people close to us. We do or say things out of rage to individuals who genuinely want to help us. So how can we stop reacting and s...

Attachment, either physical or emotional, helps to keep us going. Some may confuse it with love, while others are aware of their limits. So what is this need of becoming detached from others? Why do we frequently hear from others that they require space or that they wish to withdraw from a particular relationship?  Usually when the attachment is more from one side or when one person is giving more into a relationship they become emotionally dependent on someone.  Attachment and caring are a part of love. However, when you see yourself willing to do more for others, it means you are dependent on them.  This is why many therapists or motivators ask people to withdraw themselves from others so they do not get hurt. Here we will learn why, when & how to detach from someone. Detaching or detachment does not mean you should isolate yourself so that nobody can hurt you. It means to focus on yourself and your needs so that you do not worry about someone else's behavior. It is...

  In our life, we all have been to a point where everything went wrong, nothing worked in our favor and then we got sad and frustrated. We try to control the situation, hold our emotions in front of our family, and cry out loud by soaking our face against the pillow. I know this feeling is terrible when we feel like- "I am Worthless!" , "I am a burden to my family!" At that moment we only want peace! Peace inside our heart, mind, and everywhere around us. When we are hit back by a sudden change or a negative situation that is not in our control, we are often surrounded by negative emotions. I would say it's okay to feel worthless at some point- because only then you would be able to recognize your true self. However, continuously repeating negative self-talk and feeling bad about yourself will lead you to more negative situations.  Let's think of what you can do when you are feeling low, sad, and worthless. Here are the top 07 things to remember whenever y...

We have all been there- Sometimes it's a bad day at work, or a fight with a friend, or the sudden death of a pet animal and etc. We all try to stay happy and delightful every day but there are certain factors that influence our mood- maybe it is diet, sleeping schedule, that time of the month, finance issues, weather, health, social media, and what not! And then we wonder why we are so annoyed, or why we have sudden cravings? It's because we are unaware of these tiny things that affect our mood and ultimately our mental health. Life is crazy, you go through from being a happy person and suddenly take a toll when you don't want to talk to anyone. Well, if you also wonder about what to do when in a bad mood then don't worry here are certain tips for you to get out of that zone instantly and become an energetic soul. 7 ways to improve your mood quickly Because of 1 bad thing that happens to us, we decide to be in the bad mood for the rest of the day and accept it as it is....

  Do you have any friends or co-workers who are negative in any way? It's easy to listen to others, who say - " To stay away from negative people"  but what if that one negative person is your spouse, your family member, or the guy you work with? Of course, we all know that we are not in la-la land where there is positivity everywhere, the world is filled with those people too who are always talking rubbish and making others feel bad about themselves. No matter where you go or what you do, you will always find a person thinking the opposite of you. It's not that they are bad or evil, it's just that you cannot match your vibes with them. Let's look at an example;  There is an employee in a company who is getting a good amount of salary but wants to quit his job and he goes to his HR with the resignation letter burning a hole in his pocket and tells him that he doesn't want to continue anymore. So, the HR asked him- "What's the matter?" to whi...