Let us Love Ourselves

Don't we all want things to go our way? It is our right to be happy and content in all areas of our lives. While we try to fix everything, be it jobs, relationships, or wealth, we forget to enjoy the little moments of life. We believe that we have to put more effort into getting the results we want. But sometimes, leaving things in God's hands can be fruitful. Controlling every aspect of life can be draining and exhausting and can bring negative emotions, which can lead to dissatisfaction. When you realize you have no control over external events, you can redirect your efforts elsewhere. You can concentrate on the only thing over which you have control: your responses, mindset, attitude, and outlook.  Furthermore, your confidence and focus can be increased, which can lead to a greater sense of strength and contentment. Why do we feel the urge to control things? There are times when some things will work out as we planned, and there will be times when things will not go our way....

Moving on is the toughest decision we ever make in our lives. All the flashbacks, memories, late-night calls, and cute conversations hit us hard in the faces and keep replaying in our heads. But endless fights, disrespectful and mean comments, physical or mental abuse, and feeling miserable, lonely, and unhappy are the TOP SIGNS you must let go of someone you love. I know how hard it is to suddenly stop talking to someone who you thought was your best friend for life.  In this post, I will give you some effective steps to follow that will improve your healing journey and help to soothe your wounds.  Before starting, let me tell you, I too have been through this phase in my life, and it wasn't easy at all. I used to cry almost every day. My chest felt heavy, and my heart was in pain throughout that time. But I followed some steps, took one day at a time, and gradually learned to be emotionally independent. Related:  It All Starts With You- Your guide to self-love Easy Step...

Do you still find yourself thinking about a friend or lover who has already left you? Do you still cry when you think of the time you spent with them? If yes, then you are doing wrong to yourself. Of course, some people would say that it's okay to feel what you feel.  That's true! You cannot move on from someone just like that especially when you have invested your time and energy in them.  But for a second, think logically that what are you even doing? Wasting your present moment over someone who doesn't even text you to ask- " if you are okay?"   Feeling stuck in your memory and not being able to enjoy your present life is the most painful thing.  No matter how much we say we don't miss them, it's heartbreaking when something important happens in your life and you want to share it with them but can't. As a result, we must first understand why this hurt so much. Why does it hurt so much? When people are hurting after a breakup, their first thought is ...