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26 lessons I learned in 26 years

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I turned 26 a little less than a month ago. Like everyone else, I too get excited for my birthday every year (except the excitement decreases yearly because of that aging factor). Each year since COVID-19, I have become more aware and cautious of the things and events happening in my life. I always try to relate one thing to another because of my belief in LoA. This is why I am writing this blog post so that you can connect with it and learn something from it. Lets dive in... 1. People play their role and leave:  Everyone enters our life with a purpose, teaching us lessons and contributing to our growth before our journey naturally transitions. So, don't cry over who left because they played their role, and now you must move on to the next chapter of your life. 2. Things had to fall apart for the beautiful things to manifest:  Sometimes, life's disruptions clear space for new opportunities and growth, allowing beauty to emerge from the ashes of what once was. You can only grow...

Why letting go of control can help you enjoy your life?

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Don't we all want things to go our way? It is our right to be happy and content in all areas of our lives. While we try to fix everything, be it jobs, relationships, or wealth, we forget to enjoy the little moments of life. We believe that we have to put more effort into getting the results we want. But sometimes, leaving things in God's hands can be fruitful. Controlling every aspect of life can be draining and exhausting and can bring negative emotions, which can lead to dissatisfaction. When you realize you have no control over external events, you can redirect your efforts elsewhere. You can concentrate on the only thing over which you have control: your responses, mindset, attitude, and outlook.  Furthermore, your confidence and focus can be increased, which can lead to a greater sense of strength and contentment. Why do we feel the urge to control things? There are times when some things will work out as we planned, and there will be times when things will not go our way....