Let us Love Ourselves

I turned 26 a little less than a month ago. Like everyone else, I too get excited for my birthday every year (except the excitement decreases yearly because of that aging factor). Each year since COVID-19, I have become more aware and cautious of the things and events happening in my life. I always try to relate one thing to another because of my belief in LoA. This is why I am writing this blog post so that you can connect with it and learn something from it. Lets dive in... 1. People play their role and leave:  Everyone enters our life with a purpose, teaching us lessons and contributing to our growth before our journey naturally transitions. So, don't cry over who left because they played their role, and now you must move on to the next chapter of your life. 2. Things had to fall apart for the beautiful things to manifest:  Sometimes, life's disruptions clear space for new opportunities and growth, allowing beauty to emerge from the ashes of what once was. You can only grow...

If you want to be successful, you need to set goals but be ready to work hard to achieve them. Sometimes it can be hard to stay motivated when you don't finish what you started, but it's important to keep pushing yourself. There is someone out there who feels just as lonely as you do. Believe me, we've all been there. Some people may not be completely dedicated to their goals, but that's okay. No, I am not discouraging you or saying that it's fine to be nondisciplined. I am saying that you should not berate yourself and criticize yourself every time but instead work on the flaws and situations that stop you from becoming the best version of yourself. Hence, if you are also struggling to become the better version of yourself, this blog post is for you. Let's find some easy hacks that will allow us to achieve our goals in a timely manner. Here are 5 simple strategies for becoming your best self—and for making lasting changes that will serve you for years to come: ...

Are you someone who is facing problems in your relationships? Or you are not able to achieve your career goals? Or you know that going to the gym will help you to reduce your weight but still, you are lazy enough and can't go? Then in all these cases, you might be self-sabotaging yourself! Often times, we people don't really know that our behavior is harming us. We may think that there are certain people or things that are unlucky for our goals, and maybe because of this, we are always failing.  However, we forget to look within ourselves and the words we say or the way we behave. So what exactly Self-Sabotage is? Self-sabotage, in simple words, means - "Doing the opposite of what you want and need". It simply means behaving in a way that holds you back from your goals or may cause problems in your relationships or even cause you stress. When you hold yourself from reaching your full potential, is self-sabotaging. Common Examples of Self-Sabotaging Resist To Change- ...

Basically, we all care about what people think of us in some or the other way. This is the reason why we try to speak English in a better accent (especially those whose mother tongue is not English), we dress so perfectly when socializing, we try to eat what other eat that too with proper etiquettes, moreover, we watch what others watch be it on Netflix, Amazon Prime or any other Hollywood movie. And if some of us are not doing what others are doing we are forced to hear that if we belong to another planet? Let's get back to our school days when Justin Beiber and Taylor swift were so new and popular during those days and some of our friends and classmates were used to gossip about them because they had the access to internet and laptops at their home and we were not. Our friends/classmates used to sing that popular song of Taylor Swift- "You belong with me". But you were clueless, b ecause you were not used to these kinds of songs or because you did not use to have acces...

Confidence is believing in yourself and others that a person can do the work confidently. Confidence is the ability to believe that you are good to yourself (and others). It gives you immense joy when you start thinking that you are not above and not below to others. You are a unique and extraordinary person. When you change your mindset and start believing in your abilities that is when you develop self - confidence. source: Pixabay Self - confidence is far different from being egoistic or rude to others. You have confidence in yourself, in your abilities, in your belief system. You should never try to disrespect others in any way by thinking that you are above them. No one is above ourselves, except the Divine God. When you have confidence in yourself you don't seek attention from others because you accept yourself and you know what you are made of! Have you ever seen MS Dhoni telling people about his achievements? No, because he knows that if he will believe in himself, he would...

WHY SHOULD WE BELIEVE IN OURSELVES?   To understand the concept of believing in ourselves we must first know the origin of this word. Believe is derived from the word "belief"                              What is a belief? A belief is something that we have interpreted into our minds which we think to be true because of various key factors such as: Any experience we have had about anything. Any reference we have heard about someone or something Any opinion we have made for something or someone For instance, a man expresses his belief towards God through prayer. He has never seen God but because of his culture and traditions and his family does so he has also started praying because of belief. Another example would be, We know that Wednesday comes after Tuesday, and Thursday comes after Wednesday. If anyone would say to us that Thursday comes after Tuesday we will not believe him because we know this is ...