Let us Love Ourselves

How often do you pass remarks casually to someone jokingly or just passing by? It happens all the time, right?  Have you ever considered how those words would make the other person feel? Probably not. The worst part? We don't make these casual, often harsh statements to strangers. Instead, we say them to those we claim to love and care about: our parents, siblings, spouse, friends, in-laws, or children. However, we rarely pause to consider whether our comments have harmed someone. We think we are just joking, but we never realize that the other person might take it seriously and feel deeply hurt. Sometimes, a simple remark can be enough to make someone feel “worthless,” “useless,” or “unlovable.” Its their problem, they took it personally! You might dismiss their feelings by saying, "if they are crying over silly things, its their problem." Yes, it is their problem! But as someone who cares for them, dont you think you should not have said what you felt?  Most  people...

  source: Pinterest          If you have a friend who speaks to you the same way, you sometimes speak to yourself, how long he would be your friend? You will say, I would immediately cut off contact with him because he speaks rubbish to me and for me. But have you ever realized, that you are your biggest enemy when you speak those toxic and bad words for yourself! O ur mind is always thinking something depending on what circumstances are on the outside. When we have a dream, that is also caused by the thought patterns of our mind. Hence, about 95% of the time our mind keeps on thinking except when we are in deep sleep. Someone who is disempowering us, or not supporting us, or taunting us all of the time, we may not like to be with them, because all we are getting is negative vibes from them. But how can we run away from ourselves? When we do negative self-talk, we don't have the option to run away, all we can do is stop that thought, change that thought, ...