Let us Love Ourselves

I always wondered why people are so good at the beginning of any relationship and change their colors after a few days or months. Diving deep, I realized that people were the same; it was just me who couldn't spot the red flags and got manipulated and entangled in their charm. Attachment is the word we often hear about connections and relationships. In today's era, where being "single" is given the most value by Gen Z, you can listen to them talking about "I get attached too quickly." Why's that? Have you thought? What does it mean to get attached to someone? Attachment is a crucial component of human connection because it allows us to maintain meaningful relationships. Our general well-being also depends on it. Attachments first emerge in our earliest relationships with parents, relatives, and caretakers. Your attachments to your parents, siblings, friends, mentors, love partners, and (your) offspring are shaped and guided by these ties, which begin in...

  Self-hatred is something we all have experienced during our childhood or teen years when we used to compare ourselves with other children.   Self-hatred or self-loathing is not something that you are born with, nor it is something that you only experience in childhood but it can hit you at any age. So what exactly "self-hatred" or "self-loathing" is? According to  Psychology Today : Self-hatred encompasses the feeling of guilt, shame, anger towards oneself when we compare ourselves to others or when we only focus on the negative instead of the positive. "Oh look, he has such a big house!" , "I want to be rich like him!" or "Why am I not fit like her?" Comments like these put a major impact on our mental health which in turn causes us depression, loneliness, and hatred towards everybody. Did you also felt lost after coming home with all those negative thoughts being planted by someone else in your mind about you and you didn't know...