Let us Love Ourselves

"Having your own money is so essential for a woman!" You've probably heard women around you say this. But why do you think they emphasise this so much? Why does this statement matter so much to them? Let me tell you. I am a woman, and I am 29 years old. I graduated in 2018 but didn't pursue postgraduate studies because of my financial difficulties. Although several relatives offered to pay my tuition fees, I declined, hoping to start earning instead. I still remember that my first salary was around INR 8,000. Fast-forward to June 2025, and I had been working on and off. The monthly salary credit message in my bank account used to give me a sense of peace and the freedom to buy whatever I liked. I was never someone who would brag about buying expensive things because, deep down, I already knew I couldn't afford them. Yet, I was happy because whatever I earned was enough to fulfil my basic needs, such as buying good clothes, ordering food online and covering other m...

We frequently find ourselves in situations and relationships that make us feel unworthy or unimportant. These experiences can be like a tangled web, making us doubt ourselves and our worth.  We often encounter difficulties and make decisions that may gradually erode our self-esteem. But we must find the courage to break free from these negative influences and rediscover our true value and importance. It's about untangling ourselves from the things that hold us back and recognizing the worth that's always been inside us. It is easy to lose sight of our true essence as we prioritize others' happiness over our own. However, as the adage goes, "No one is worth losing yourself over."   In this empowering blog post, we will delve into the importance of self-discovery and self-love, understanding how to let go of toxic relationships, and embracing a renewed sense of worthiness. At some point in our lives, we may have experienced the challenge of preserving our self-worth...