Let us Love Ourselves

You may have heard phrases like "The relationship you have with yourself defines the relationship you have with others." This is absolutely true because the way you treat yourself is the way others will treat you.  Sometimes I have a hard time remembering to take care of myself because I get so focused on the people I like. I schedule everything around them and forget about my own needs. It's like they've become the most important things in my life. Guess what happens next? I depend on them for my emotional needs and happiness, and they have no choice but to leave me.  Sometimes I feel like I need someone else to be happy, but that's not true. It's because when I was little, I didn't love myself enough. That's why I work on loving myself now, so I can have a happy life and attract good things to me. If you find it hard to make good friends or get along with others, it's important to start being kind to yourself. When you like who you are, you will ...

Do you feel like bad things keep happening to you one after the other? If some days things are not happening as you desired, do you feel like something is not good? Most of us live our lives feeling okay. We pray to God to get us out of bad situations, and when those situations disappear from our lives, we feel happy for a few minutes or days, and then we again get back to the cycle of feeling okay. Everyone says to keep thinking positively all the time, but how do we do so? How can someone generate good thoughts 24x7?  Is it possible? Let's find out! Being positive all the time sucks!!! Those who say "be positive no matter what" is simply spreading toxic positivity. According to  Wikipedia - "It is a pressure to stay upbeat no matter how dire the situation is." One cannot be happy or even okay if someone in his family is sick or he recently got fired. Hence, the point of remaining positive in difficult situations is invalid.  However, developing and maintaining...