Let us Love Ourselves

Do you feel that outside circumstances or events control how you think and feel? It may be true! But not every time! If you are feeling sad, depressed, or bored, you cannot always put it to someone else. You cannot always blame the situations in your life unless you are willing to take responsibility. Ever heard someone always complaining about their health, relationships, finances, job, boss, or career? Do you want to be with that person? No right! Every time they come to you or call you to talk about their sad events, you wish they cut the phone soon so you don't have to listen to their bullshit or the same repetitive story. But do you realize you have become the same person unconsciously in the eyes of the universe? Why would the universe give you peace, love, abundance, joy, and happiness if you are always playing the victim card? The knowledge the universe holds, you have the same. All you need to do is search for it by going within! It's time you stop letting outside circ...

Does your mood often depend on how other people behave? You usually adjust your emotional frequency in response to someone's behavior, regardless of who they are. If this is you and you do not know how to regain the remote control of your happiness that you have given others, then this blog post is for you. Considering I am also like this and working on letting others stop affecting me, I thought of why not write a blog post. You never know who is struggling with what! So let's get started! The Constant Need For Begging Others To Make You Happy Happiness is a universal desire. We always want to experience happiness. But when you ask someone when was the last time they were happy? You will often see them wondering here and there, or they will tell a moment when something important happened in their lives, like a day when their daughter got married or when they stood first in their class. But these are just a few examples of essential days when you were happy. Being happy is an i...

Are you also someone who takes everything on themselves?  I mean, regardless of what the other person says, do you believe they are doing everything they can to hurt you? You believe that everything they do or say is done with the intent of making you feel bad about yourself. However, most of the time, these things aren't even about you or caused by you. So, if you are constantly putting strain on your mind and experiencing feelings of guilt or unease, you must stop. Because from today onwards you don't need to bother about everything so much. Here you will get seven easy tips that will allow you to take control over yourself, your emotions, and how you respond to the world while not taking things personally. But before we proceed further, we need to know why we take everything on ourselves which leads to emotional unrest. source: pexels Why do we take things personally? Suppose one day you went to your boss to ask something and instead of explaining to you politely, he scolded...

 Whenever someone says about living in the present, we often end up saying- " It's not possible for anyone to just stay in the present and not plan for the future." Yes, being prepared for the future is beneficial. This is why we put our money into investments and savings. However, getting entirely engrossed in the future is a waste of time.   A few days back, someone asked me about my future plans. And to be honest I had nothing to say. I simply answered them with three words- "To Be Happy!"  Yes, this little phrase is my future goal and today's motto. When you are an overthinker, you tend to think a lot about your future and even get dwelled on your past.  But pause for a second and think if it's worth using your mental energy on things that have already happened or might happen in the future! Nobody knows if they would wake up the next day and see the bright sun. So why can't we enjoy the current 24 hours that we have? Let me assure you that I am...