Let us Love Ourselves

Do you often see yourself being influenced by others? Do you witness how easily people con others and trap them? While this may not be that harmful, you want to learn how you can urge others to do something you are sure of, just like many brilliant and powerful people. However, influence involves more than just cleverness. It also consists in developing sincere relationships and trust. This blog post will examine the moral dimensions of influence and discuss strategies successful people use to motivate and influence others. Let's get started.   How to become a great influencer? Now, by this, we don't mean a "social media influencer" like you see on Instagram. At the same time, they are also influencers who influence people to buy what they are wearing. What is it about these individuals that gives them such compelling power? What invisible force do they possess that allows their objectives to become yours? The keys to the solution are a profound grasp of human psychol...

Do you often find yourself physically present somewhere but mentally somewhere else? This happens to many of us! Sometimes, even when we're with our friends and family or at work, if we feel upset, we might start thinking about things that happened before or worry about things that might happen in the future. This is called overthinking!  In simple words, it refers to when you are not aware of the present but are thinking of something else that causes your mind to worry, which first appears on your face and then in your behavior. But just like everything else, we can solve this issue too (only if we first know we are not fully present where we should be). Let's dive in deep! Why do we overthink? Overthinking is the act of thinking deeply and persistently about a topic or situation.  You struggle to get your thoughts to concentrate on anything else when you overthink. It is as if it consumes all your mind and hinders you from going somewhere else.  Contrary to popular beli...

 The new  year is here- which definitely means new resolutions! Although nothing exactly changes with a new year. But most of us take a pledge with ourselves that - "This time I won't let people hurt me nor I would beg someone to love me." However, with time some of us forget all our resolutions and start acting the same way we used to act the previous year. Same disappointments with different people! Have you ever thought about why someone else's behavior bothers you so much that your mental peace gets upside down? Think of yourself in a light and happy mood and suddenly you meet someone or talk to someone who instantly puts you in a low vibration mode. This person can be anyone from your family, work, social group, or your spouse. There are other cases also where we get hurt by our own people. Maybe their intention was not to hurt us or perhaps i f someone to whom we are attached does something which we didn't expect them to do, we immediately react and think vi...

Picking yourself up after failures can be tough. I know because I have been through it.  No human in this world is 100% happy or living his best life. We all have low moments, sudden mishappenings, and lose our way.  Some of us find our way back and go over the moon while some of us take time to get back on track. In life's journey, we may feel lonely, depressed, or even drop our confidence.   Building confidence is a much easier task than rebuilding it. Because when you don't know anything, suppose you don't know how to drive a car, you will practice it and eventually learn it and have confidence over your driving skills. On the other hand, rebuilding that confidence again what you have already tried or you already know can be difficult. And that is why we are here to:-   Rebuild our confidence when failures hit us The most common excuse we all make when something doesn't work out is- "Well, if this won't happen, maybe it's not suppose to happen!" Th...

Our 20's, 30's and even 40's are that age where you would find a lot of people saying- they are not happy with their life. Even getting a luxurious house, expensive car, marrying their dream life partner, they would still cribble about their worries. People living in abundance can't get enough of enough! If you are also a lot like them, you have wondered and worried about your life purpose for a very long time and filtered various books, magazines, journals, and even attended seminars on it then you are most probably going to get your answer over here. We all have a purpose to live. The need is to find it. And by purpose, I am not referring to finding only the plan and structure of your career, (although career plays an important role in your life) but there is more than a career and profession. Before we go down and find some practical tips on finding our life's purpose let's first go through other relevant subjects. Why do you feel stuck in life? There are da...

  Do you also wake up and sometimes feel not okay and presumes that today is going to be a bad day? Well, me too! 👐 We all go through these sorts of emotions where we don't know what is happening but we don't feel good without any valid reason. Sometimes when you go grocery shopping, and the line at the cash counter is so big that you might think you would have to spend a night over there. Isn't that irritating? or maybe when you came back home after a long day thinking you would sleep earlier today but when you finally come back you realize guests are waiting for you.  Who hates this feeling? Days are never the same. Sometimes we feel good, energized, confident, and spend the whole day doing our favorite stuff and there are those days also when we don't feel like doing anything and sleep the entire day or want to live alone for that day. Nobody has control over their lives. Nobody knows when he would die.  Here is a relevant quote by Chuck Palahniuk  who says " W...

  This year has affected a lot of us. Some lost their jobs, some couldn't meet their loved ones, some gained weight and what not! We all experienced different levels of emotions such as stress, anxiety, loneliness etc. Even till now many of us have not been able to fully get out of this situation and get out of our comfort zone. We are lazy, lethargic and don't want to get out of our comfort zones which of course is not good for us and then we weep that we are not doing anything or we are not getting what we want. This procrastination and laziness become our habit day by day and we don't even realize that. All of these and a lot more are bad habits that we develop slowly.  So to change the way of our living and to get what we want from our life I have come up with 10 healthy habits. 10 Healthy Habits To  Change Your Life 1. Start with Taking Care of Your Body- Start by taking care of our body. Our body exists for us. Lying on the bed all the time and doing nothing is of n...