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How to be alone and not be lonely?

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Whenever anyone says to others that they are single or living alone or like going on solo dates, they are often remarked by people, saying "alone leads to loneliness." While it's understandable that people give us advice for our benefit, if we are alone, we may end up going into depression because of having no social connections. But this blog post is not about setting aside everything and isolating yourself. Nor is it about keeping yourself busy and chasing people so you don't end up alone, even if you have to stay in a toxic marriage. I am here to tell you that being alone can help you on your self-love journey, make you a better human, and heal your uncovered wounds so that you can make better connections with the people around you. Once you know the difference between living alone and loneliness, you'll automatically make better decisions for yourself in all aspects of life. So, are you ready to dive deep into these terms to gain a better understanding? Let...

Stop Waiting: Create Your Happiness Now!

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Do you feel that outside circumstances or events control how you think and feel? It may be true! But not every time! If you are feeling sad, depressed, or bored, you cannot always put it to someone else. You cannot always blame the situations in your life unless you are willing to take responsibility. Ever heard someone always complaining about their health, relationships, finances, job, boss, or career? Do you want to be with that person? No right! Every time they come to you or call you to talk about their sad events, you wish they cut the phone soon so you don't have to listen to their bullshit or the same repetitive story. But do you realize you have become the same person unconsciously in the eyes of the universe? Why would the universe give you peace, love, abundance, joy, and happiness if you are always playing the victim card? The knowledge the universe holds, you have the same. All you need to do is search for it by going within! It's time you stop letting outside circ...

Why You Must Stop Asking People To Make You Happy?

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Does your mood often depend on how other people behave? You usually adjust your emotional frequency in response to someone's behavior, regardless of who they are. If this is you and you do not know how to regain the remote control of your happiness that you have given others, then this blog post is for you. Considering I am also like this and working on letting others stop affecting me, I thought of why not write a blog post. You never know who is struggling with what! So let's get started! The Constant Need For Begging Others To Make You Happy Happiness is a universal desire. We always want to experience happiness. But when you ask someone when was the last time they were happy? You will often see them wondering here and there, or they will tell a moment when something important happened in their lives, like a day when their daughter got married or when they stood first in their class. But these are just a few examples of essential days when you were happy. Being happy is an i...