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How to be alone and not be lonely?

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Whenever anyone says to others that they are single or living alone or like going on solo dates, they are often remarked by people, saying "alone leads to loneliness." While it's understandable that people give us advice for our benefit, if we are alone, we may end up going into depression because of having no social connections. But this blog post is not about setting aside everything and isolating yourself. Nor is it about keeping yourself busy and chasing people so you don't end up alone, even if you have to stay in a toxic marriage. I am here to tell you that being alone can help you on your self-love journey, make you a better human, and heal your uncovered wounds so that you can make better connections with the people around you. Once you know the difference between living alone and loneliness, you'll automatically make better decisions for yourself in all aspects of life. So, are you ready to dive deep into these terms to gain a better understanding? Let...

Dive Deep: The Key to Everything Lies Inside

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We are social beings. We crave connections, love, and a sense of belonging.  Everybody wants to be liked and appreciated by others, thus we all look for friends and a particular someone to spend our time with. We hope they will choose us, value us, and desire for us to be in their lives. Even most of the time, we are busy with our work, but when we are free, say weekends, we overthink, call friends to hang out, and if they have plans, we get sad. But not even for one second, we find this rejection a redirection: the  Universe  wants us to be alone for a reason. It has its  own  plans, which we normal people can't understand.  Perhaps it's an opportunity to stop, think, and get back in touch with ourselves.  Consider witnessing friends in fulfilling partnerships. Even while it could at first make you feel alone, this response can be a very useful one. It can help us identify areas in our own lives that require improvement or attention. Let us ...

How To Find Solitude When Alone and Live Your Best Life?

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Do you hate spending time alone? Do you get frustrated when suddenly your plans to go out get canceled? I am sure most of you probably answered yes to the above questions. Because why not? A man is a social animal, and he always wants to be surrounded by a group of people to chill with and have fun. However, if there is a time when you have no other option but to sit by yourself without your friends and family, what makes you so desperate to go out?  Why do you hate spending time alone? Of course, we need to maintain a balance between spending alone time with ourselves and spending time socializing.  I myself get desperate some days because I so want to go out, but having no social circle makes me sad and angry.  There are days when I want to be alone and spend time with myself, and there are other days when I feel lonely in my own company.  If you didn't want to be alone but ended up feeling lonely and now this thing is scaring you off, then relax and read this enti...