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Stop forcing people to stay in your life and start living alone

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 Ask yourself-  "Do you want to play a role of cameo in someone else's movie?"  or  "Do you want to play a lead role in your own movie?" Of course, you would play a lead role.  But you can't be a lead hero if you're chasing someone and asking them to stay in your life. You are not seeing your worth and instead of wishing someone else to see your worth. How is that possible?  It isn't! So, if you want to be the star of your own movie and if you want to be happy, stop CHASING AND BEGGING others. The majority of today's relationships appear to be failing solely due to a lack of connection between the partners. You can't make someone understand how much you need them. The opposite partner should be able to accomplish everything on his or her own. The most essential thing to remember in this case is that you should never compel someone to stay in your life. You can't make somebody love you, care for you or remain with you. All you can do now i...

Are You Chasing Someone? Here's What You Need To Know

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Have you ever been in a position when you know the other person does not want to talk with you but you still want to? They're implying that they don't want to be with you by their acts and behaviors, but you're not ready to accept this! You want them to call you or text you. And when they do not call or respond to your texts, you check them on all the other social media platforms. Seeing them online on Facebook or Whatsapp makes your heartache Isn't it? Trust me I know how it feels to feel abandoned, and shattered. It looks like we are the most unworthy human on this planet. We beat ourselves up. We feel guilt and shame and curse our destiny. source: pixabay It is the most pathetic thing that we all humans do (except those who love themselves). Yes, someone who is incubated with self-love  will never beg anyone to be in their lives. They won't run or chase someone because they are happy loving themselves. They are full of love and, they give love to everyone around ...

20 Ways To Practice Self-Love Everyday

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  We all know what self-love is. Why is it important, Why should we love ourselves, and all the basic concepts regarding self-love? In this post, I am going to talk about 20 Ways to Practice Self-Love every day. Every single day we can practice self-love so that slowly it can become a part of us. Just as brushing our teeth, combing our hair, dressing up, eating food is a common ritual, self-love will be a part of this if we find out how to practice it! When we hear someone mentioning self-love, we may think, it's such a tough subject, they might have learned about this from someone professional or maybe only the rich and happy people can love themselves as they have everything. This is where we go wrong! No, not only the rich and poor can love themselves, we all have to love ourselves to be happy and successful, and not only to get success, but it is our birthright! Okay, you find someone attractive, you fall in love with them after few conversations and after some time you realize...

6 Signs You Lack Self-Love

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6 Signs you lack Self-love Self-love is a basic foundation for attracting good relations into our lives. If you do not have love within yourself you cannot give love to others. When someone asks me, why have I created a blog on Self-love?  Why not something else? My answer is- What I am doing to make myself better, I want others to do the same. Yes, I am not a professional coach or a book writer nor even a therapist. But I am a human who has endured so much in her life, that now she is willing to make someone else's life better. Whenever I get texts like - "I am reading your articles and they are really helping me ", this actually makes me realize that I am not doing anything wrong. Because if my 1 self-written and self-experienced article can make someone's day better then it automatically makes my day. If you ask me when did I realized the importance of self-love? I will give you an honest answer, and that is when my own friends made me feel less comfortable. When ...

10 Self Love Affirmations That Will Change Your Life

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If you are the existing user of this blog, then you must have read my previous articles where I often talk about Affirmations, Positive Affirmations to practice daily in our lives.  You must be thinking about why I always talk about Affirmations? What is the role of Positive Affirmations? Do Affirmations really work? WHAT IS AFFIRMATION? Affirmation is a practice of saying positive sentences to yourself about your career, success, money, health, love life, and every field in which you want to foster improvement. It also means that to use our daily life sentences in such a way that can bring abundance into our lives. These affirmations if used frequently, can also improve the decisions we make. HOW DOES AFFIRMATION WORK? It is said that to make affirmations effective, then these affirmations need to be used in the positive and present tense and also should be specific. Affirmations can result in both positive as well as negative. These are like a double-edged sword depending on how ...

How To Not Care What People Think Of You?

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Basically, we all care about what people think of us in some or the other way. This is the reason why we try to speak English in a better accent (especially those whose mother tongue is not English), we dress so perfectly when socializing, we try to eat what other eat that too with proper etiquettes, moreover, we watch what others watch be it on Netflix, Amazon Prime or any other Hollywood movie. And if some of us are not doing what others are doing we are forced to hear that if we belong to another planet? Let's get back to our school days when Justin Beiber and Taylor swift were so new and popular during those days and some of our friends and classmates were used to gossip about them because they had the access to internet and laptops at their home and we were not. Our friends/classmates used to sing that popular song of Taylor Swift- "You belong with me". But you were clueless, b ecause you were not used to these kinds of songs or because you did not use to have acces...