MY EMOTIONS AS A BRIDE-TO-BE 🥹

How do I start?

The day I used to only visualize and pray for is finally coming!!! 

I always prayed to God to give me a partner who loves, cares, and supports me- a man who worships the ground I walk on, understands me like no one else, and is my big-time supporter. Now that I am getting married, I can say he is exactly the one I prayed for. 

Even though he isn't the one I thought I wanted ( my expectations also included living in the same city as my parents ), he is the man I truly needed- the one my inner child longed for.

After losing my dad at the age of seven, I never really knew what love from the opposite gender felt like- even though my younger brother has always loved me deeply. But receiving true affection, love, and protection from a kind, masculine man makes you feel on top of the world. 

I can't even explain the difference it makes, girls. My nervous system feels calmer, more regulated. I am happier, more at peace, and comfortable being myself around him, knowing he'll never judge me but instead love even my silliest sides. 

It all happened because of my prayers- all those manifestation techniques, full moon rituals with candles and water, and endless faith! 

My Emotions as a Bride-to-Be

Coming from a Sikh Punjabi family, I used to do a specific paath for six months continuously. While typing this, I can vividly remember those days when I would cry in front of God, asking him to send me the right man. Not because I felt lonely, but because I was tired of living in survival mode. I wanted to feel more feminine, more like myself — free from burdens and responsibilities.

I know life will change after marriage. I’ll have new responsibilities — taking care of our families, cooking, waking up on time, respecting his family and relatives. But knowing that he’ll be by my side gives me peace. I’m sure everything will become easier and more beautiful.

At last, I have to give myself some credit too — because I chose to heal and work on myself.

You cannot get the right partner until you are right first!

Only because I focused on self-love, mindset, and inner child healing was I able to align my energy and manifest the love of my life. So, it’s important to focus on yourself first. No matter how many times you’ve been hurt in the past, you must stand up again — build healthy routines, and stay consistent, both physically and mentally.

You have to choose yourself over and over again — and remove all the negative, toxic people from your life.

Winding Up 

I pray that every girl’s destiny is filled with love, joy, and laughter. May every girl find a life partner who unknowingly heals her wounds and fills her life with endless love — only love, love, and more love. ❤️

Thankyou to each one of you for being my readers, loving me and supporting me through my thicks and thins. 

I have created my own YoutubeChannel to do something of my own, create an impact and make myself proud in the future. Wish me luck and support my Youtube journey as well- because every girl wants to be self independent and not a burden on someone else.