"They say nothing changes if you don't change!"
If you want to change your life, no matter your gender, then it's high time for you to make some amendments to it.
Becoming a high-value man or woman is easy if you know how to do it. Or else, you'll always attract the same patterns of people that will hurt you in the end.
No matter how you were treated in the past, you still have the power to change your life and become the man or woman everyone pursues.
In this blog post, we'll learn some essential yet necessary things that we must implement if we want to improve our self-worth and become the high-value man or woman everyone desires.
Let's embark on this journey of using our power to the fullest:
Attributes of a high-value man or woman
1. Know your worth: People will treat you the way you treat yourself. If you consider yourself undeserving and have a low sense of worth, you will get the same from the outside world. Being a valuable woman doesn't mean you have to be pretty. It means being nice to yourself and others. Sometimes people might not understand how great you are, but that's okay because they weren't the right people. If you feel bad about yourself, you can say "I am enough" to feel better.
2. Listen to nightly affirmations: Listening to affirmations when you are about to sleep can do wonders for your mind. Since your conscious mind is in sleepy mode, it's a great opportunity to change your negative or false beliefs about yourself. I recommend that you listen to Limitless manifestor by Dylan James every night for about 21 nights and see the change in yourself that you have always wanted.
3. Self care is a must: It's important to take good care of yourself in all ways: by eating healthy, sleeping enough, exercising, and finding ways to deal with stress. It's also important to look and feel good about yourself. This shows that you respect and love yourself. You don't need someone else to take care of you, but you also won't let anyone treat you poorly. If you have high standards for how you want to be treated, you'll easily be able to tell which people see your worth and which ones don't.
4. Give yourself the love you are seeking: If you want your man or woman to buy you flowers, take you out for dinner, or spend time with you, first do it by yourself. Go out and spend time with yourself. Sit around nature and feel your heart beating for you, your body working 24X7 only for you. Be grateful for your hands, legs, and everything else you have. Overall, do everything that you want the other person to do for you.
5. Manage your emotions: No matter how much you like someone or have feelings for someone, there are times when you have to think from your mind and not from your heart. I know this is the most difficult thing to do for someone who is emotional like I am. If a boy tells you he likes you, you can tell him if you like him too. But until he says it, make him show you he likes you and wait for him to take the next step.
6. Practice self compassion: To be a great person, you should be nice and gentle to yourself, even when you do things wrong or don't reach your goals. It's okay to mess up sometimes because everyone does. You can be kind to yourself by talking nicely to yourself and remembering that everyone makes mistakes. There is no need to berate yourself for doing something immature. Know that it's okay and take action towards how you can smartly handle the situation, even if it's not in your favor.
7. Set boundaries: If you are someone who is looking for something serious and long lasting, tell this to someone at the first place. Do not change yourself for others so they will like you. Being a high-value person means knowing what you are okay with and what you are not okay with in your relationships. This means telling others what you will and will not accept. It's important to do this so that you can feel good about yourself and that others will treat you with kindness and respect.
8. Your happiness is in your hands: Have you given the remote control of your happiness to someone else? You must take it right away! Nobody is entitled to make you happy. If someone else's actions make you upset, it can make you feel like you don't have control. But remember, you are special and come from a happy and peaceful place. You don't need other people to make you happy. Happiness is already inside of you.
Final Thoughts
To have good relationships with others, you need to have a good relationship with yourself first. This means treating yourself well and treating others well too. These are important things to remember to be a high value person. I hope you liked learning about these principles, and you can share them with a friend to help them too!
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