Let us Love Ourselves

Everyone has something to say, whether it's your friends, spouse, parents, colleagues, or even individuals you don't know but see on social media. While most of us claim that we do what we like and listen to our own intuition. But there are times when we get stuck in confusion and run to people for solutions. Although it is beneficial to seek advice from others, relying completely on them may prevent you from accomplishing your goals. No matter how close you are to them, they are unaware of your hopes, aspirations, and desires. Stop Following Others And Start Listening To Yourself Always listening to others can halt your success and prevent you from achieving your next big goal. Here are some reasons that suggest why walking on the advice of others can mislead you: They tell you what they want you to do- We are sometimes surrounded by manipulative persons who get their work done without our knowledge.  They take advantage of our gullibility and advise us to do what they want. ...

Today, everyone talks about self-care, mental health, and emotional needs. Many applications have been developed, both free and paid, that act as therapy for you. While it's not a new concept, my motive for writing a self-care blog post is that we could get more clarity and understanding behind it. Only by prioritizing self-care can we meet our mental and emotional needs. Do you know self-care can improve your mental health?  Let's talk about what self-care is and how we may include it in our everyday routines. What is self-care? Everyone has a different approach to self-care. For an extrovert person- it might be going out and chilling with his friends. On the other hand, an introverted person is happier spending time alone in his home. Self-care is nothing but taking care of one's emotional, mental, and physical needs. Some believe that doing daily chores such as getting up in the morning, brushing their teeth, taking a shower, etc, is self-care. While for others, these th...

 Ask yourself-  "Do you want to play a role of cameo in someone else's movie?"  or  "Do you want to play a lead role in your own movie?" Of course, you would play a lead role.  But you can't be a lead hero if you're chasing someone and asking them to stay in your life. You are not seeing your worth and instead of wishing someone else to see your worth. How is that possible?  It isn't! So, if you want to be the star of your own movie and if you want to be happy, stop CHASING AND BEGGING others. The majority of today's relationships appear to be failing solely due to a lack of connection between the partners. You can't make someone understand how much you need them. The opposite partner should be able to accomplish everything on his or her own. The most essential thing to remember in this case is that you should never compel someone to stay in your life. You can't make somebody love you, care for you or remain with you. All you can do now i...

Have you ever been in a position when you know the other person does not want to talk with you but you still want to? They're implying that they don't want to be with you by their acts and behaviors, but you're not ready to accept this! You want them to call you or text you. And when they do not call or respond to your texts, you check them on all the other social media platforms. Seeing them online on Facebook or Whatsapp makes your heartache Isn't it? Trust me I know how it feels to feel abandoned, and shattered. It looks like we are the most unworthy human on this planet. We beat ourselves up. We feel guilt and shame and curse our destiny. source: pixabay It is the most pathetic thing that we all humans do (except those who love themselves). Yes, someone who is incubated with self-love  will never beg anyone to be in their lives. They won't run or chase someone because they are happy loving themselves. They are full of love and, they give love to everyone around ...

  We all know what self-love is. Why is it important, Why should we love ourselves, and all the basic concepts regarding self-love? In this post, I am going to talk about 20 Ways to Practice Self-Love every day. Every single day we can practice self-love so that slowly it can become a part of us. Just as brushing our teeth, combing our hair, dressing up, eating food is a common ritual, self-love will be a part of this if we find out how to practice it! When we hear someone mentioning self-love, we may think, it's such a tough subject, they might have learned about this from someone professional or maybe only the rich and happy people can love themselves as they have everything. This is where we go wrong! No, not only the rich and poor can love themselves, we all have to love ourselves to be happy and successful, and not only to get success, but it is our birthright! Okay, you find someone attractive, you fall in love with them after few conversations and after some time you realize...

6 Signs you lack Self-love Self-love is a basic foundation for attracting good relations into our lives. If you do not have love within yourself you cannot give love to others. When someone asks me, why have I created a blog on Self-love?  Why not something else? My answer is- What I am doing to make myself better, I want others to do the same. Yes, I am not a professional coach or a book writer nor even a therapist. But I am a human who has endured so much in her life, that now she is willing to make someone else's life better. Whenever I get texts like - "I am reading your articles and they are really helping me ", this actually makes me realize that I am not doing anything wrong. Because if my 1 self-written and self-experienced article can make someone's day better then it automatically makes my day. If you ask me when did I realized the importance of self-love? I will give you an honest answer, and that is when my own friends made me feel less comfortable. When ...